I happy to just meet and talk with you, or you & your parents if that’s what you’d like. This may seem like an unusual thing to do, but there are professionals available for every thing to do with our bodies these days, from walk in eye surgery & dentists to spas & massage. We can usually expect to be able to speak with them or meet them first and talk about what you’re looking for.
With regards to the current landscape of sex and what it’s like being out there as an adult, parents are only too aware of the potential pitfalls, so it’s no problem if they want to meet me.
Regarding this subject and whole area of sex, women should be as comfortable as possible and know who the person is and what they’re like before hand. Its only right to be able to meet you on the terms that you feel confident.