On this page I just want to offer the opportunity of meeting your parents or a friend(s) beforehand. Not so much to talk about the potential meeting, but to have an opportunity to get a gist of character etc. I often get asked to meet for coffee by couples and singles before making an erotic date just for this reason. Alot of the time we don’t actually talk about sex, it’s just chatting and banter to relax. When you’re in the position of doing something for the first time, on your own and in this type of scenario you’re welcome to bring someone there with you at the coffee meet, a parent or friend etc.